Welcome to life as a father of five, or as I like to call it "A little bit of chaos in paradise" --- www.father-of-five.com
Vacation - Part I
Here is a list of just a few of the many projects around the house I got done:
1. Finished the spindles on the deck.
2. Repaired the sprinkler system.
3. Mowed and edged the lawn.
4. Repaired a broken light switch in the basement
5. Changed the oil in my car.
6. Sorted and put away lots of loose tools that have been hanging around the house.
7. Painted the front pillar.
8. Cleaned and vacuumed both the van and my "daily driver".
9. Cleaned and painted our bedroom.
(Our bedroom was the last room still in the "original" color. We have new bedding and
furniture for the room too! - about a year old - we just never got around to painting our room.)
10. Repaired, set and filled the automatic fish feeder on my aquarium.
11. Cleaned portions of the garage.
12. Cleaned all the debris from my deck building project that have been laying around the yard.
(Cut boards, sawdust, broken beer bottles, screws, nails, tacks, and staples, etc.)
(Now the kids can actually play under the deck!)
13. Replaced the finicky 3rd "cyclops" brake light in my car (that has been out as long as I can remember).
14. Tracked down my missing license tabs that I bought on-line and never received.
15. Repaired the drain in the bathroom vanity
Again, there were just some of the bigger projects I got accomplished. I will try to find my original "list" of things I wanted to get done on my vacation and compare the lists...
End of Part I - Part II to follow....
D.
Today's little project...
Today I fixed the leak I knew our new sprinkler system (new last year) had. I knew it had a leak because when all the water in the house was turned off, I could see the little sweep hand on the water meter moving - Indicating that it was leaking somewhere. When standing outside the supply line for the sprinkler system was always cold and sweating, and you could hear a hissing noise from the pipe.
Reluctant to call the irrigation company back (for fear of a bill that looked like $$$$) I decided last night (while "rejuvenating" on my new deck & listening to XM radio) that today was the day I tackled the problem.
I have been (since charging the system this year) keeping the system off - turning on the control box, then walking out and turning on the valve each time I water, remembering to do the same (only off) when the cycle was done. If I did not, water would leak out somewhere underground - and I may as well "wipe" with dollar bills as let water pour out of a pipe somewhere under the ground!
Well, I started off where it made the most sense - the water source. Where the supply line enters the ground. It is under some decorative rocks, so I started digging the rocks back. When the shovel was not working the way I wanted it to, I got out the knee pads and started using my hands.
Well, right at the pipe I noticed how soft the ground was (under the rock and landscape plastic) and how water was starting to show up around the rocks as I dug them out. I decided to try a little "experiment" and I turned on the valve - and I saw movement like currents in the water around the rocks!!! GOOD NEWS! The leak was somewhere close to the pipe. I dug, and dug, and dug (carefully as to not cut any other pipes) and finally cleared out the area. It was now full of standing water. I got out a cup and bailed out the hole. It worked great. Now my pipe, the fittings, and the underground pipe were all exposed. I turned on the water again, and saw the stream of water coming from where the fitting met the copper pipe. It was a pretty strong stream of water...
Long story short - my local hardware store was out of the plastic fitting, but had everything else. Because my wife was out and about on errands, I called her and explained what I needed her to pick up for me (which she did - perfectly I may add) and waited for her return.
I sweated all the fittings, taped up the threads, made all the connections, and put pressure on the system. One small pinhole leak in my last sweat fitting. A couple more goes at it, and voila - A complete and functional sprinkler system again. I can leave the control box on, and the valve on, and no more spinning little water meter dial!
Deck part 19 - The light at the end of the tunnel

All that is left is to finish the stairs.... And get a final inspection
Deck part 18 - Almost there
Deck part 17 - Change in plans.
Ok.. Supplies are starting to run short. I have all the wood I need, but I need some shorter deck screws for the spindles.
Joe came over today, so I changed focus from the spindles (which I did not have all the parts for) to the stairs. Joe has made several stair risers from scratch, so I had him out to help. By 2 pm we had the risers done, and the treads cut and half of them in place. We only put in half because the original stair plans were for 36" wide stairs. I wanted a bit wider stairs, so when I cut the 39" treads neeeded, the other half of the 72" board is 33" and therefore too short to use for another step.
I am tired of running up and down the ladder to get on the deck, so I used the left over 33" and screwed them down as "temporary steps" - So I can now get up and down from the deck to the back yard!

When I ran out of stair treads - we called it quits. It was 2pm and hiting the hottest part of the day. I have gotten a lot done again on these days off, so I am rewarding myself with an evening off.
I head back to work again tomrow, and it's another busy week.
Sat 11am - 11pm
Sun 11am - 11pm
Mon 11am - 11pm
Tues 11am - 11pm
Wed 3pm - 11pm
Thurs 3pm - 11pm
Fri 3pm - 11pm
Sat (normally my day off) 7am - 11am
But, after that last Saturday shift, I am on 15 days vacation! Woo-Hoo!!!
Deck - Part 16

I have the spindles to put in place (between the railing posts, attached at the upper and lower cross members.. And the steps left.... (oh, yeah... And my final inspection.)
Last night Michele and I sat out on the deck after the kids went to bed - visiting, playing the "guessing game" on what the band and the name of the song was on the XM radio's 80's station, and drinking wine coolers. It was wonderful... These are the evenings I love!
Tomorow my father-in-law is going to come over and help me with the steps. He has had a lot of prior experience with steps... So, I am not sure if I will meet my goal of everthing execpt steps finished by Saturday morning... But there still is a chance...
Other than forgetting to put on sunscreen, and again deep frying my skin to a crispy, crunchy coating, things have been going better than anticipated. (Knock on wood).
D
Deck - Part 15
My goal by Saturday 10am (yup, another busy week for me) - is to have the posts, top rail, bottom rail, and rail cap on and finished.
Wish me luck.
D
Only a Dad
Coming home from the daily race,
Bringing little of gold or fame
To show how well he has played the game;
But glad in his heart that his own rejoice
To see him come and to hear his voice.
One of ten million men or more
Plodding along in the daily strife,
Bearing the whips and the scorns of life,
With never a whimper of pain or hate,
For the sake of those who at home await.
Merely one of the surging crowd,
Toiling, striving from day to day,
Facing whatever may come his way,
Silent whenever the harsh condemn,
And bearing it all for the love of them.
To smooth the way for his children small,
Doing with courage stern and grim
The deeds that his father did for him.
This is the line that for him I pen:
Only a dad, but the best of men.
In Honor of the upcomming Father's Day Holiday
In honor of the upcomming father's day (in which I will be working my regular shift and overtime shifts Friday, Saturday, and Sunday) keeping me from the family's festivities - I would like to pass along a couple of poems that I find relevant about Fatherhood each of these days....
Who has a troop of romping youth
About his parlor floor,
Who nightly hears a round of cheers,
When he is at the door,
Who is attacked on every side
By eager little hands
That reach to tug his grizzled mug,
The wealth of earth commands.
Who knows the joys of girls and boys,
His lads and lassies, too,
Who's pounced upon and bounced upon
When his day's work is through,
Whose trousers know the gentle tug
Of some glad little tot,
The baby of his crew of love,
Is wealthier than a lot.
Oh, be he poor and sore distressed
And weary with the fight,
If with a whoop his healthy troop
Run, welcoming at night,
And kisses greet him at the end
Of all his toiling grim,
With what is best in life he's blest
And rich men envy him
~Edgar Guest
Quality Reading time with Jonathan...
Deck Part 14 - Deck Surface is Complete!

Last night (with only ten boards left to finish - all the "edges" that needed to be trimmed, ripped, and tweaked in many different ways) we sat out on the deck and everyone (except Ben) had ice cream cones.
Today, after finishing my last board, and cleaning the deck to take the pictures, I sat down and had a partially frozen beer slush and a cigar!
Victory! Success!
I am taking the rest of the night off, and taking the boys to their baseball game.
It is back to work tomorrow to a busy week. I have a meeting for Ben before work on Wednesday. Thursday is a "normal day". I work 3 days of overtime (12 hour shifts) Friday, Saturday and Sunday (Father's day). Monday is another "normal" day, and Tuesday is an ERU training day which means off work at 11pm on Monday, and back to work on Tuesday by 8am (quick turnaround). I wont be getting much done on the deck in the next seven days...
Deck Part 13 - No rest for the "Father of Five"
I met goal #1, and have started on goal #2. Framework is all done! (execpt one "issue" that I will discusss a little bit later). I then started on the decking this morning. Ben came over and was a significant help! We got the first (about) 5 feet of decking screwed down. As we went further I noticed that one end of the deck was a little "off square" and that by the 18th foot of the deck, I was off by about 2". This made a difference as the decking was 20' and the unsquare end joist kept moving out a bit. Since it was starting to rain, and I was going to have to make an adjustment to that end joist, we called it quits for the day.

It was a fun family project, and all were out helping execpt Melissa and Michele... Michele was trying to get Melissa down for a nap...
Deck Part 12 - No need for pictures...
The pictures of the deck have started becoming a bit redundant, and take forever to load. I have done some "editing" and reduced the number of pictures by about 33.3%
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Progress has been ongoing.
All the joists from the house to the first beam (10' out) are in place. The north half of the deck (18' deep) has all joists in place from the house out to the end of the deck. The south half of the deck is 21' deep and because of that I have to double the joists. I have 10' joists coming off the house, and will have 12' joists from the 10' beam out to the 21' beam.
I put some decking boards up on the deck today after I finished and had my lunch on the deck today!
Because of the changes made in the plans (doubled joists around the cantilevered patio door), I was a few 2x10's short.
Tomorrow, my day will be spent returning some unneeded items back to the store, and picking up the seven 2x10's that I am short. I hope to have all the framing (remaining joists and rim joists) done by Friday when I leave for work. If I do reach my goal, Saturday, Sunday, Monday and Tuesday can be used to get the decking surface on the deck.
Goal #1 - Framing complete by Friday at 1pm.
Goal #2 - Decking finished by Wednesday at 1pm.
I'll let you know how it turned out, and hope to have some updated photos by then.
David
Deck Part 11 - Just keep plugging along.. + More!
I then got about 1/3 of the joists up before having to call it quits early.
We got Ben and went out for Michele's Birthday... Ruby Tuesdays.
We also had a campfire with the neighbors last night.
Today we go to my Mom & Dad's for a little "birthday picnic" - then 11am - 11pm shift at work...
I've had actual consecutive "free time" to do whatever I needed for the first time in a long time, and I actually got a lot done... Back to the regular grindstone...
I found the answer!

(All kidding aside... She crawled into Molly's kennel and pulled the door shut behind her... I heard her giggling, and I steped out of the kitchen to see this! I could not help but take a picture... Honest folks.. it was all her idea - I had nothing to do with this execpt to take the picture!)
Deck Part 10 - Progress... Slow but steady... + More!
Together we got the other three posts up, the thrid beam, leveled everthing leveled precicsly (both on the x and the y axis) and nailed all the framing connectors to the frame.
As of tonight, EVERTHING from the Beams down is done!
When we finished that, we hauled all the 2x10's (used for joists) to the back yard, and sorted them by size.
Tomorow I will take inventory of the 2x10's measure up all the spans I need to make and start putting them in order (think tetris). Then it's back to work for me.
Tomorow is also the kids last day of school... Parents worst nightmare!
On an unrelated note, tonight I took off Rebecca's training wheels and she rode her bike "training wheel free" for the first time... She was ESTATIC! She rode back and forth on the sidewalk for about a half hour, then went on a mile bikeride while Mom went for her evening walk (they went together)... We could see her smile from down the road.. No fooling!






